A friend said, I can only be me, I am not someone else, all my feelings stem from his own life. It is because each person's experience is different, so the angle of approach and attitude, not the same.
Yes, Sometimes, I really was distress, I can only view from a personal point of view to express, with words to calm spectator comfort you, encourage friends out of the shadows, the sun, active lives. Now that we are willing to use me as a Zhongchang a complaint that confidence in me, then I will do my small way to help you. If you feel your life is not a positive role, then do not listen to my wordy, follow your own way happy life, this is purely personal freedom, I wish you.
However, there are times when I do have I broke from the experience. For example, a lot of friends too numerous to mention the contradiction between husband and wife, her husband's heinous, family Jilinggousui, and so on. I have said many times, my husband and in personality, interests, ideas, and so there are many aspects endless conflict, and then loving couple also had a hundred times to strangle each other's thoughts. how do? fight? Cold War? divorce? do Jour? or bitch? the only way out is only to adjust their own attitude, a change in look at the world, so there is a lot of my article summed up their experience. heard you are willing to listen, not listen to detour, I was supposed to be bringing more people happy, good intentions, the world as evidence .
still have friends happy life of my pen is questioned, to the stomach. continue! ... ... wrote a few real book review, I curse you say? ... ... on this point can get a glimpse is enough to show off your blogging has meaning. I think your article is untrue, understand it? fans who are slaves of your nature, so what's good sought after? laughing mother is fragrant fart. , which one is not to let everyone speak their minds? addition to pornography and reactionary remarks, I almost never delete comments, whether praise of derogatory! many of my friends have different opinions, have their own reason and experience, here are some I'm very welcome like, we hold a sincere attitude exchange.
But I say again, refused to malicious attacks, verbal abuse refused boring!!! bluntly, the first in support of my fans for lesson one: What's inside a person his eyes see is what. So, criticize others two use With your understanding of other people have other people to understand. We sincerely wish each other well, you do not like going to defame and slander you?
As for the ; show off Do you like the content of it, sorry, not my blog. I will not match up, who likes to meet, only to write who love to read writing is my freedom not to write.
I never said my life is always Choose a positive attitude to face.
no matter how much I have wronged and suffering, are is also valuable to others! gifts of roses, yet it left lingering fragrance hand, does not it? Yes, yes, I want to people around!
explained, is a very difficult and unnecessary thing.
who understands you, no need to explain to know you;
to attack you, only that the explanation is sophistry .
on together to think about it.
I know a 40-year-old middle-aged women, she wore a full of energy every day, confident, always with a smile. I was in a barber's got to know her , about a year ago, when we sat next to the location, while hair while chatting casually. From the words of her conversation, I feel life is so beautiful, she was proud to boast of her husband, capable, proud to boast of her sensible son, proudly boast of her sister ... ... she smart child praising met when the morning markets selling vegetables to the master, she praised the barber craft, she praised me ... ... just over an hour, I was deeply Her sunny disposition that comes out of the infection, not help from beginning to end with her smile. I thought: a woman, how can this be so very difficult. Then the barber to help her, from the side of her body, hold up a bulging round stuff. I am very curious, looking down, but do not know what it is. hairdresser helped her to stand up to Then she smiled and held out his hand swelling that round thing, happily waved goodbye to me, gone.
she was gone, the barber with a sigh, told me that she was a late intestinal cancer! my smile froze suddenly, I was shocked that the round bulging ... ... ... ...
since that thing met, I met with her regularly, I use the more admiration and respect for the vision, to appreciate her smile. I have seen could not conceal her painful convulsions, I have secretly turned to see her teeth look like ... ...
fist she told me: , and may not survive a few days, but my family are particularly good to me, have hurt me, care about me, I am afraid you do not have the good fortune to others it is not? Oh, I can be content it! > I write to you, my tears could not help but fall down. is such a terminally ill patient must rely on a round bulging day stuff to maintain the status of simple living, every day was mercilessly tortured pain, Who can feel her pain? However, how she would describe myself as happy, how she can have a smile so bright that the sun?
health is a blessing. We often say that health is in front of is behind the ???
some people, good health, but they flies are not happy, complaining all day long; the contrary, there are some people seriously ill, but every day to sunny. think about it, and why?
I also know a 30-year-old woman, a day Tuizhao Che Mai Shaobing downstairs in my home folder eggs. Although she wore a simple, but very clean, very neat, and her voice was hearty, a guest to buy any sesame seed, she will affectionately call Enthusiasm is great success, as if she gave you, not a piece of cake, but conveys a warm heart.
was familiar with her, slowly began to communicate with a smile, my side and so She made cakes, while talk to her days. until one day, I finally understand the real life of her state: she had come to rural areas, and her husband into the city after work, earn some money, have a new love, abandoned mother and child . Now, she and her daughter had each other to rely on Mai Shaobing living. I have seen her quietly for Ma Lei, have heard her sigh softly ... ...
she told me: Do not pity me, and I feel very happy now, leave the man is a smart choice. I am now, although not earn some money, but I rely on their own, do not rely on man! My daughter is very talented, often to help me work, we intended to rent a store after a while, the biscuits spread out the larger, when the time come, ha, huh, huh. economic base betrayal of no woman who can appreciate the hardships of her life? her wounded soul who is going to comfort? who rely on her to do? However, how she would describe myself as happy, how she can have the sun so bright it smile?
We often say that women have done better to marry well, showing a woman's happiness, and marriage are closely related. However, after listening to this example, you feel happy, and marriages do??? < br> happy people, always facing the sun, so do not see the shadows;
not happy people, even if the sun poured, it will only turn around staring at the shadows.
Finally ask, everyone says I a happy life. think about why?
very simple, because I say that they happy ah, right?
what inside a person, what you see is eyes.
I am not saying , hey!
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read aloud in the Book Durian (3) Important: guard against false illusion and reality winning information:
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