Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Class teacher case the child

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absent a student in my class called Lifan Yong, his name can be seen from his misfortune. Yunnan is the mother who, since his father died young, forced to live in frustration, with his mother remarried to a range of home financing in the saffron. In order to express the respect of his stepfather, his mother changed his name to Lifan Yong. The family would like to live peacefully, but the disaster has come to them, up the mountain last year stepfather accidentally fell to his death by cutting down trees. The bad news came as a thunderbolt to the mother and a heavy blow. Already strapped families are now more difficult for the organization. The only two walls, the house is about to collapse. Last semester, there is no way in the case of the mother, will Lifan Yong stay at home to go to school, their own capital in one county to work. Weekend to be called Lifan Yong-owned rental housing in their to small Zhuliang Tian. Because of low wages, the mother can not pay the fare, he walked to the capital in more than two hours to get to go. The most difficult economic times, his mother could not even noon lunch for his turn in the money. As a teacher I have called several times to his mother and asked her to at least ensure that children's lives, no matter how difficult, must let him eat lunch. Later, his mother never let him survive the hungry. Although life is so difficult, despite the relatively lazy learning Lifan Yong, but he can comply with all rules and regulations, one semester down,UGGs, he never had Kuang course, never be late leave early too, did not test language is also test of seven pm. Summer, his mother and an old bachelor (Barber) married, have a certain economic security, family life has improved significantly.

this semester, his mother a dozen dollars a day to Lifan Yong (fare bilateral 8 yuan, 2.5 yuan lunch money, plus a small amount of pocket money) let him return to capital in the living. Can be counterproductive, Lifan Yong changed, opening only a month, he had 5 days absenteeism (Sept. 9, Sept. 13, Sept. 17, Sept. 29, Sept. 30), 2 days leave, 5 days late, homework is not done every day. I did not change his numerous experiences of finding him talk. I gave him the first two absent mother, she also received calls, but also actively cooperate with the teacher was teaching his son, to write a review to ensure that he can to discipline a few days, he is still absent. Exasperating is absent later when I called his mother, not the shutdown is not connected, send text messages do not look. September 29, he absent, I pass seven or eight phone calls to no avail, not contact his mother. Afternoon after school, I take a special trip to the capital of the work record, find his mother, according to him the other day Lifan Yong said the current store address stepfather's hair, I managed to find his mother. I introduced her to her son's case this month, and today absenteeism, which is the fourth time. His mother said to him the day before may be the cost of three consecutive days, he may go to speak again with the beautiful. She said good night to pack his back. And give me a call. I asked her to discipline under the heartless. I advised her to control their children back home, she said, not to live house to down; I also suggested she rent an apartment in safflower to manage his son, and she is not willing to give up work now, because the family still lives, not safflower Haozhaogongzuo, not any capital to do business their own, say safflower bad business; I also suggested she transfer to the capital of his son to read, in their side but also easy to teach, she said, first choice of schools not afford fees Second, students like Li Fanyong so naughty, it simply has not the school would want him to let him in the account or only the location of safflower school. I said, you want him to study, first of all be sure that he can be on time every day to school it! This information every day so that he drifted away and the red flower in between is not the answer, he wanted to return the money to capital in the back, back, and you are busy at work, he would go the internet café, and sometimes even through the night, dawn and carrying bags coachman to school, even go to school, day classes are listless. Moreover, the conversion is now State Road 321, daily traffic jams, simply can not on time to school, you let him walk to school would be a more time-consuming. School children together with those who have money to play around, or go to the mountains have a picnic, drink beer, eat stewed meat, smoke cigarettes; or the Internet or playing video games ... ... Anyway, the blind pursuit of eat, drink, indulge in the pursuit of pleasure. No fare is about to collapse back to his home (which are also serious security risks), or Chang to go home today and tomorrow to eat rub rub Lee students to drink at home. He read as a cash cow, as a shield to the parents for money, as long as I study, parents naturally give me money, so I have to enjoy the capital, as is not really to school, it is followed by the. This will not only failed to learn the knowledge, but learn to flow. Lifan Yong did not return that night owned the home, his mother did not give me a call. The next day he still did not come to class, I pointed out to call his mother, still did not answer, I made a message to the school her son not yet reached.

Lifan Yong have turned now, I analyzed, there are several reasons, first, to give parents more money to become the love of hedonism. Previously accustomed to poverty,UGG boots clearance, suffering used to,UGG bailey button, he wants a good way to enjoy life and therefore have a three hundred sixty degrees on the concept of a big change. He abandoned the previous way of life, entirely changed, and he did not realize the importance of learning. Second, his parents did not really Guanjiao Hao, deep under the water he could not bear. Not only did not take the initiative to meet the teacher, the teacher does not answer the phone to contact them. Coupled with no culture, or less on the level of parenting. The third is the horsepower of my class is not big enough, the professional level is not high class, failed to make him stop doing.

National Day holiday in the end of the night before his mother called to say she could not manage him so that he can not read, let him follow the step-study haircut. Hearing this news, I'm sorry, a thirteen-year-old only child, and their high-school missed, and Lifan Yong,Discount UGG boots, stop your footsteps absenteeism it! Teachers want to help you! I'm going to wait for him to learn skills for some time, and truly appreciate the hardships of life, aware of the importance of learning to go home visits to fight so his mother agreed to let him return to school to study.

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